Some time ago now, I mentioned that dominant bottoms are a thing. I think it’s worth going into a little more detail about just what I was talking about, because that’s kind of an oxymoron for a lot of people.
First of all, credit where it’s due: I got the idea of human sexuality & kinky interests as a number of separate spectrums from Midori, who teaches fantastic classes and who you should…
In fact, I do. This is a very common infection among women and there are a couple things you can do. It is important to realize that a yeast infection happens because your body is out of balance and needs to be balanced again.
First, you should be absolutely sure it is a yeast infection. If you have had one before, it is a pretty unique uncomfortable feeling. If you are not positive, there are ph test kits at your local drug store. Do one just to be safe.
There are two infections often confused with each other so I guess I will go over some of the symptoms here.
Yeast infection: thick white discharge, similar to a cottage cheese consistency. NOT foul smelling. More like the smell of baked bread. NOT fishy. Exterior itching that you just cant seem to scratch, burning, pain during sex.
Bacterial Vaginosis (BV): thin white/greyish discharge, foul or fishy smelling, worse after sex, not much irritation.
Once you are positive you have a yeast infection, first thing you will want to do is soothe the discomfort.
Note: yeast are fungi that have become too abundant in your body. Do not make the infection worse by feeding them. Trust me when I say only drink water or tea. Do not eat candy or anything with sugar. IF you continue to feed the yeast, they will continue to multiply. Eat strictly protein and fruits and vegetables. I know you are like what about carbs? No. Don’t. They love that shit. You can go a few days with out bread and soda and ice cream if it means curing this problem.
Yeast like tight moist environments so wear breathable cotton underwear or if possible, go commando and fly free.
To get rid of that burning itching, put 1 part RAW ORGANIC apple cider vinegar (Braggs is the best brand) in a water bottle with 1 part water. When you take your shower, wash yourself well. I suggest buying some pH balancing feminine wash to always use (summers eve is a popular brand) because floofy soaps will make it worse. After you wash yourself sit on the floor of the tub and pour the solution slowly over your vulva. Let it sit and soothe. This sounds absolutely bizarre but trust me, women swear by this stuff for a reason. Then you may use water to wash off, and towel dry yourself when you are done.
Now here’s where we are gonna get weirder…
Garlic, a potent antimicrobial and anti-fungal is the best way I would recommend treating a yeast infection.
Use a garlic vaginal suppository (also known as a pessiary) for 3 consecutive nights for 2 weeks (a total of 6 treatments).
To make a garlic pessiary:
1. Take a single clove of fresh garlic and peel off the natural white paper shell that covers it, leaving the clove intact.
2. At bedtime, put the clove into the vagina.
3. In the morning, remove the garlic clove and throw it in the garbage. The garlic often causes the vagina to have a watery discharge.
Note: Any cut in the clove makes the activity of the garlic stronger. Thus, the more of the inside of the clove that is exposed, the higher the dose. Each woman should learn the dose that works best for her, from the lowest dose (an uncut clove) to a clove with one or more small fingernail slits. Start small and work your way up.
Not down with the garlic?
Take a latex glove and fill the fingers with PLAIN yogurt (with active cultures) and stick it in the freezer. If you feel a yeast infection coming on, before bed, cut off and insert a frozen yogurt “finger” (without latex). Also best done at night! The yogurt will melt and get messy.
On top of the dietary changes, I would recommend picking up a probiotic from your local health food store. They have probiotics specifically for womens health. Not just any acidophilus is going to help despite what a lot of sites say.
On top of these treatments, you can also take a Tablespoon of apple cider vinegar each day in a glass of water or natural organic unsweetened cranberry juice.
Good luck, much love, and good vibes.
Message again for any clarification
The garlic alone works really well for me, though I often also cut down on sugar/carbs if I feel a yeast infection beginning. I usually make a lot of cuts in my garlic clove so it’s stronger and since I usually only have mild yeast infections, it’s only necessary for a couple of days.
The garlic totally works though, y’all.
Please do not make your partner feel guilty about not cumming during sex. I know you may feel insecure like you’re doing something wrong but its okay. If they say they are having a good time then believe them. I did that all the time in my previous relationship and it made him feel guilty. If your partner does not cum and the say its nothing to do with you, then believe them. It has no baring on how good your sex is or how good of a partner you are. I learned the hard way that this causes tension in relationships.