The Well-Rounded Toybox

All about the toys, from a queer, kinky fatty's perspective.
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oliveswind:

Ylvis, educating people about the female reproductive system.  these guys will be the death of me. [x]

wat

wtf

i died at the pH value

omfg

I just learnt more about the vagina in like 10 seconds than I have ever learnt in my entire life

well

Debating whether or not I should share this with my anatomy and physiology professor.

WATCH THE VIDEO. IT GETS BETTER

OH THANK YOU FOR BRINGING THIS MAGNIFICENCE INTO MY LIFE

I’M ACTUALLY DYING OMG THIS IS BRILLIANT

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blackbdsm:

Another anon I answered for my promo—many thanks.

betheintrepid:

Q: I was wondering how you knew you were a femdom and how your sub knew? I’m attracted to a lot of things I see on here but it’s never consistent and I can’t figure out what my “role” is. (via Black BDSM ask)

A: Roles are just labels describing things kinky folk do (often stereotypically), so don’t feel like you have to fit in the confines of a role in order to pick a place to start exploring. The role you choose should reflect you, not define or limit you.

When I first started, I didn’t have a role. I gravitated toward the things I liked and tried a bit of this and that with my then switch boyfriend. In fact, it took me years to lean into dominance because I’d recoiled from most of what I’d seen of femdoms.

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miss-ghouls:

I really wish this was tile-able, so i could make it my background on everything D: >

miss-ghouls:

I really wish this was tile-able, so i could make it my background on everything D: >

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femininefreak:

Sex Education in American Public Schools

every one makes fun of New Jersey but it fucking rules

Wow, these graphs really put the lack of proper sex education in school into perspective. 

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aithne:

Every so often, the cry goes up: “Fewer love triangles and more threesomes!” But what if you’re a writer who wants to write some polyamorous relationships, but you’re not sure where to start?

This article is here to help.

Please note that this is not a guide about how to be in a…

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afrafemme:

A friend and I were out with our kids when another family’s two-year-old came up. She began hugging my friend’s 18-month-old, following her around and smiling at her. My friend’s little girl looked like she wasn’t so sure she liked this, and at that moment the other little girl’s mom came up and got down on her little girl’s level to talk to her.

“Honey, can you listen to me for a moment? I’m glad you’ve found a new friend, but you need to make sure to look at her face to see if she likes it when you hug her. And if she doesn’t like it, you need to give her space. Okay?”

Two years old, and already her mother was teaching her about consent.

My daughter Sally likes to color on herself with markers. I tell her it’s her body, so it’s her choice. Sometimes she writes her name, sometimes she draws flowers or patterns. The other day I heard her talking to her brother, a marker in her hand.

“Bobby, do you mind if I color on your leg?”

Bobby smiled and moved himself closer to his sister. She began drawing a pattern on his leg with a marker while he watched, fascinated. Later, she began coloring on the sole of his foot. After each stoke, he pulled his foot back, laughing. I looked over to see what was causing the commotion, and Sally turned to me.

“He doesn’t mind if I do this,” she explained, “he is only moving his foot because it tickles. He thinks its funny.” And she was right. Already Bobby had extended his foot to her again, smiling as he did so.

What I find really fascinating about these two anecdotes is that they both deal with the consent of children not yet old enough to communicate verbally. In both stories, the older child must read the consent of the younger child through nonverbal cues. And even then, consent is not this ambiguous thing that is difficult to understand.

Teaching consent is ongoing, but it starts when children are very young. It involves both teaching children to pay attention to and respect others’ consent (or lack thereof) and teaching children that they should expect their own bodies and their own space to be respected—even by their parents and other relatives.

And if children of two or four can be expected to read the nonverbal cues and expressions of children not yet old enough to talk in order to assess whether there is consent, what excuse do full grown adults have?

I try to do this every day I go to nursery and gosh it makes me so happy to see it done elsewhere.

Yes, consent is nonsexual, too!

Not only that, but one of the reasons many child victims of sexual abuse don’t reach out is that they don’t have the understanding or words for what is happening to them, and why it isn’t okay. Teaching kids about consent helps them build better relationships and gives them the tools to seek help if they or a friend need our protection.

Teaching consent is applicable to all spheres of behavior, all ages, all genders, so why aren’t we instituting teaching consent and the right to boundaries to every age group?

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erikamoen:

Hysteria! Paroxysms! Wandering Uteruses! OH MY.

Fantastic cartoonist Emi Gennis bravely leads us through the History of Vibrators in today’s Oh Joy, Sex Toy.

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lovelylittleturnons:

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archiveoflostdreams:

Here is a brief guide to some of the important things you never learned about in sex ed. 

  • Debunking myths about anatomy 
  • Brief overview of sexuality and gender (More complex version here)
  • Slut-shaming and consent
  • Various types of birth control (with at least 95% effectiveness) 
  • Masturbation 
  • Lube
  • Sex toys
Ebook for sharing is [HERE] (I’m sorry I just really love making ebooks…)

For those of you who didn’t know this stuff here you go :)

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i-heart-bodies:

sex is not shameful.

sex is not required.

sex is a choice.

not having sex is a choice.

and no matter what choice you make for yourself, you are in the right.

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